^spent a long period of time posting one-liners with tragic content on this forum, so i was assuming that her family was in shambles, she was being savagely beaten by her parents, and/or had someone in the household with serious addiction/criminal problems. you know, these times when you wrote "these people are making my life hell", mentioned you felt like crying, etc. then she and rusty posted the account of their holiday and i understood that my mental image was wrong. hence the "not a disaster" part. happy now?