the people who have great success with ladies are the ones who just don't give a SHIT at all. Seriously, I am talking about people who can walk up to models, talk to them for an hour and not give a FUCK what she thinks at all.
that's what everybody should strive to be like in my view (Not that you should pursue models, it's up to you who you choose to pursue, but that attitude is what everybody should have, it makes for a lot less pain and a lot less suffering when X girl doesn't like you for whatever reason)
gotta keep your eye on the big picture, it's the key to being constantly happy. Don't let any one single event get you down at all.