hmmm, pics...... not really....
only thing I can say: I feel more comfortable when trem-picking pretty close to the trem (is it called "trem-picking" because of this???). normally, my pick is somewhere above the bridge-PU when trem-picking, with my hand somewhere over the bridge. I also hold the pick at an angle.
maybe you can find some good picks or even videos by looking around the hps of some blackmetal bands (or other bands that you know use trem-picking a lot)