Who gets the last word in?

nafnikufesin said:
If your boyfriend is talking about kids, it must be getting serious
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If I say ok.. He'll marry me tomorrow... And I want this too but this will be a big decision cuz he lives in the UK and I live in Turkiye... If I say yes.. I will move to the UK... I feel that I cannot breath without him.. But on the other hand.. I was born and grew up here, my parents and life and job is here... He has been back to the UK for 23 days and will be back here god (if there's one) knows when... We hope in 3 months, 1 week, 6 days, 18 hours, 38 minutes from now... Nothing is certain...
 
^You have 1 life, don't wait for buts and maybe's.

Don't live your life for your parents and don't......:Smug: thinking...thinking...thinking :erk:

You have 1 life, don't fuck IT...:heh:
 
maiden1 said:
^You have 1 life, don't wait for buts and maybe's.

Don't live your life for your parents and don't......:Smug: thinking...thinking...thinking :erk:

You have 1 life, don't fuck IT...:heh:
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You are so fckn right maiden1.. If only I could manage not to look back and leave... Everything would be different... But I feel responsible for my family... Why the hell things are that much complicated and difficult in Turkish family life?? Here in my country, mostly for the daughters, there is this idea of the parents that, we gave birth to our daughter so she is our possession...

nafnikufesin said:
If you can't breathe without him, you should either hook up for good or see a doctor. :p
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Yea the doctor prescribed me him :P :ill:
 
Necromancy, there is so much I would like to say, but I can't, we are from two different cultures...:yell: MINES FUCKED :heh:

Necromancy don't waist your time wondering...I shoulda...coulda...woulda :erk:

Necromancy, time has passed...Now you have become your mother, if you are happy with that...SWEET....If your not...:yell:GET THE FUCK OUT :rock:

NECROMANCY, don't sing the song, be the song...Don't Worry Be Happy :Saint:
 
necromancy: if you live in the UK, you can probabily easily go and visit your family often (no more visa problem. If you stay in Turkey, i think it is difficult to get a visa to the UK to visit your bf.
i think you two should move together, it seems like you are on the same way.

And i think that society has evoled a lot and you shouldnt feel guilty for leaving your country. When you are adult, you dont belong to your parents anymore, you have the right to do whatever you wanna do.
 
maiden1 said:
Necromancy, there is so much I would like to say, but I can't, we are from two different cultures...:yell: MINES FUCKED :heh:

Necromancy don't waist your time wondering...I shoulda...coulda...woulda :erk:

Necromancy, time has passed...Now you have become your mother, if you are happy with that...SWEET....If your not...:yell:GET THE FUCK OUT :rock:

NECROMANCY, don't sing the song, be the song...Don't Worry Be Happy :Saint:
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Hehehe...:D:D:D What can I say...I think I am living in a bubble created by my parents away from the real world. I am unable to fly the nest! I must! I must!

Dark_Silence said:
necromancy: if you live in the UK, you can probabily easily go and visit your family often (no more visa problem. If you stay in Turkey, i think it is difficult to get a visa to the UK to visit your bf.
i think you two should move together, it seems like you are on the same way.

And i think that society has evoled a lot and you shouldnt feel guilty for leaving your country. When you are adult, you dont belong to your parents anymore, you have the right to do whatever you wanna do.
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If only my mother could accept that I am an adult now! It is really impossible for her to admit it...
And yes! Visa thing scares my ass off! The thing is.. I dunno what to do if they don't give me the visa.. I need it.. I will apply in a couple of weeks when all the things will be more clear about my job here... I am thinking about not mentioning my boyfriend cuz it is said to me that, people in the British Embassy would probably think that I'll go and not be back again (which will be my further plan though :D) , so that I will show them that I am a graduate of English Language and Literature and I am now working as a teacher here and I want to go and see England since I am really interested in the language and I want to breath the air and experience the culture at a short trip.. Hope it works...:S

nafnikufesin said:
Live your life, not your parents' life
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You are so fucking right... If only I could:(
 
necromancy said:
If only my mother could accept that I am an adult now! It is really impossible for her to admit it...
And yes! Visa thing scares my ass off! The thing is.. I dunno what to do if they don't give me the visa.. I need it.. I will apply in a couple of weeks when all the things will be more clear about my job here... I am thinking about not mentioning my boyfriend cuz it is said to me that, people in the British Embassy would probably think that I'll go and not be back again (which will be my further plan though :D) , so that I will show them that I am a graduate of English Language and Literature and I am now working as a teacher here and I want to go and see England since I am really interested in the language and I want to breath the air and experience the culture at a short trip.. Hope it works...:S
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good luck then!

and i bet that if you and your boyfriend decided to get married you could get a permanent visa or something :p
 
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