Another lame breakup thread.

[Tee]

I'm sorry cuz you're a fine Scorpio girl, and he really has nice legs.
truth is, such things happen to everyone, they are like... inevitable. wish you a fast recovery.

 

[LORD_RED_DRAGON]

It's going to hurt watching him go through other girls for the next two and a half years.

IF YOU'RE NOT FUCKING HIM ANYMORE THEN DON'T INTERACT WITH HIM... PERIOD. YOU AS A FEMALE, NEEED THIS KIND OF CLOSURE, THE FINALITY OF ABSCENCE. IF YOU ARE UNABLE TO DO THIS, THEN, WELL YOU WERE PRETTY MUCH IN A SITUATION WHERE DATING HIM WAS A REALLY BAD IDEA TO BEGIN WITH AND IT'S DEFINATELY A GOOD THING THAT YOU BROKE UP NOW INSTEAD OF AFTER GETTING MARRIED OR HAVING KID(S) TOGETHER OR LIVING TOGETHER FOR SO LONG THAT ONE OF YOU IS COMEPLETELY UNABLE TO LIVE SOLO

 

[PlatypusJesus]

Yeah, I definitely know this feeling as well. It's devastating when you still love the person. Recovery time differs for everyone, but with the obvious contentment that you show over his decision being a true, kind-hearted one, I think you may skip the part of hating him completely, so that's always a good thing because the hatred that you can go through with this situation can be a little disturbing. Anyway, I'll just ramble on saying things that you already know if I keep typing, so just good luck and always keep in mind that it does take time.

 

[El Stormo]

I'LL GIVE HER THE STRAP-ON-DILDO TO DO IT WITH

Ugh. Who knows where that's been!

Anyway, sorry to hear about your breakup Stealer. If it consoles you, me and my girlfriend broke up a short while ago too, and we even lived together and all.

 

[Chromatose]

Yeah, I definitely know this feeling as well. It's devastating when you still love the person. Recovery time differs for everyone, but with the obvious contentment that you show over his decision being a true, kind-hearted one, I think you may skip the part of hating him completely, so that's always a good thing because the hatred that you can go through with this situation can be a little disturbing. Anyway, I'll just ramble on saying things that you already know if I keep typing, so just good luck and always keep in mind that it does take time.

we... can still be friends, right?

 

[Conspirator]

Yeah, it sucks a lot. After over thirteen months he decided that he stopped loving me.

looking at your avatar...

...he must be a complete moron

 

[Dead_Lioness]

^ Aye, Iz is a heart breaker


he is indeed a moron!

 

[LORD_RED_DRAGON]

PEOPLE THAT BREAK-UP WITH GORGEOUS GIRLS ARE CRAZY

 

[derek]

PEOPLE THAT BREAK-UP WITH GORGEOUS GIRLS ARE CRAZY

And make me insanely jealous. Those bastards.

 

[LORD_RED_DRAGON]

And make me insanely jealous.

 

[AALLGOD]

You are a pretty girl... shouldn't have troubles finding another guy. And I was talking to Stealer of Dreams, not Lord Red Dragon.

That was just for clarification... because he looks mighty fine in drag.

 

[lizard]

sorry Is'. but once you find a new guy that will cure the blues.

 

[LORD_RED_DRAGON]

sorry Is'. but once you find a new guy that will cure the blues.

GO GET NEW GUY
GO GET NEW GUY

 

[Kvlt Wench]

Today was terrible. I can't believe how fucking childish he was acting. He's always been such a smart and mature guy, but he ignored me completely today, which of course only made things worse, and I was sobbing all through lunch, but according to my friend he didn't even bother looking at me once. I wasn't mad at him before, but now I really, really am. He knows how much this is hurting me, and I just can't understand how he can suddenly not care about me AT ALL.

 

[WhiteBeastofWotan]

cyber hug!

 

[mReEtTaIlRsEkD]

He's always been such a smart and mature guy, but he ignored me completely today.

Shit, I did that once. Fuck that asshole though, just don't care if he doesn't, show you're better than him.

 

[derek]

Ach, guys can be complete tools when it comes to that sorta stuff. He probably just doesnt know how to go about actually interacting with you. I'll post you some real scottish whisky and that will make it all better

 

[Kvlt Wench]

I did get drunkish with my friend this weekend, and that was all fine and dandy for a while, but then I got really upset again and cried some more.

 

[derek]

Yeah, beerage doesnt really solve the problem for long...sadly. I'm the most emotionally retarded person I know so the only thing i can say is: feel better and drink lots of strong whisky oh and "cheer up, pal, these things hae a habit o' sortin; themsels oot"

 

[Nightshade]

...He knows how much this is hurting me, and I just can't understand how he can suddenly not care about me AT ALL.

He can't. It simply doesn't work that way. Sometimes the actions and the motivation don't match up.

And I'm sorry that you're hurting. It sucks.

*hands Isabel a box of Godiva*

Here, honey, you've earned the good stuff. Do you still see him because you're in school? Same hang outs? LRD is right -- if you're not together anymore, just make a clean break. Maybe have a sort of mock funeral. Get yourself some closure. Fuck him -- he has to figure out his feelings for himself, figuring out your feelings and making them better is about you. Get the feelings out, go through the grief, heal and be strong.

The best revenge is living well.