Another lame breakup thread.

Stealer of Dreams said:
Today was terrible. I can't believe how fucking childish he was acting. He's always been such a smart and mature guy, but he ignored me completely today, which of course only made things worse, and I was sobbing all through lunch, but according to my friend he didn't even bother looking at me once. I wasn't mad at him before, but now I really, really am. He knows how much this is hurting me, and I just can't understand how he can suddenly not care about me AT ALL.
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AS A GIRL YOU REALLY NEED TO COMEPLETELY STOP INTERACTING WITH HIM ALL TOGETHER AND GET A NEW BOYFREIND TO HELP YOU MOVE ON
 
Stealer of Dreams said:
Today was terrible. I can't believe how fucking childish he was acting. He's always been such a smart and mature guy, but he ignored me completely today, which of course only made things worse, and I was sobbing all through lunch, but according to my friend he didn't even bother looking at me once. I wasn't mad at him before, but now I really, really am. He knows how much this is hurting me, and I just can't understand how he can suddenly not care about me AT ALL.
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I've had that treatment before...it really does hurt, and it makes the guy look like a total ass.

*hugsies*
 
Nightshade said:
He can't. It simply doesn't work that way.
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Emotional disconnection does happen, I've done it with people before... it makes you look cold and uninterested. I agree he's bluffing, though, because over a year of history doesn't just get shut off unless something traumatic happens to cause it.
 
now that he said what he had to make that cut, he doesn't really want to communicate, as he thinks it could imply that he still might feel the way he used to and that he didn't loose the type of emotions he (surely) had. and it is possible (probable) that he did loose them, AND now is feeling guilty, AND is insecure and afraid that you might look him in the eyes having the question "why?" written in yours... he doesn't want to see that as he wouldn't know how to answer that question. such questions don't have (satisfactory) answers.

fuck....
 
Sympathy to you. Getting a new boyfriend sounds good advice, but the thing is that your new guy probably won't want to think he's been taken "on the rebound", so its best to be friends rather than get the new boyfriend too in love with you until you know he's not just a substitute. Just having good friends is best really.
 
Tee said:
now that he said what he had to make that cut, he doesn't really want to communicate, as he thinks it could imply that he still might feel the way he used to and that he didn't loose the type of emotions he (surely) had. and it is possible (probable) that he did loose them, AND now is feeling guilty, AND is insecure and afraid that you might look him in the eyes having the question "why?" written in yours... he doesn't want to see that as he wouldn't know how to answer that question. such questions don't have (satisfactory) answers.

fuck....
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endless maturity right there. showing your worldy wise age, huh tee? :p
 
*no comment*

:p

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Stealer of Dreams said:
Hm, I am fifteen...but if you really want to check the sexy pics thread.
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Yikes, 15 and you were in a 13 month relationship? Where did you two meet, Kindercare?
Haha sorry, I'm just being a bitch. Treat it as a learning experience and enjoy some time with your friends. That was always one of my biggest regrets when I was with my ex at your age, thinking he was the only person in the world and neglecting my friends. Thankfully they all stuck by me even ten years later now that we broke up. :)
 
Good! He does seem like a decent guy, as a guy myelf we dont know how to deal with things well AT ALL, so he probably just felt really weird and didnt know how to act.

peace and love (hippy style :) )
 
Stealer of Dreams said:
Hm, I am fifteen...
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ONLY 15 AND YOU WERE IN A 13 MONTH RELATIONSHIP :OMG: I AM SERIOUSLY DAZZLED THAT THE RELATIONSHIP LASTED AS LONG AS IT DID WITH YOU BEING AS YOUNG AS YOU ARE... WHEN I WAS 15 I WAS FUCKING A DIFFERENT PERSON EVERY MONTH...I STILL STAND BY EVERYTHING I ALREADY SAID ON THIS THREAD
 
Enjoy your freedom! I know it's painful right now, but it's fun to go out with your friends and not have to worry about anyone else....for a while anyway. Give it some time....

*hugs*
 
BlackwaterNymph said:
*hug* Boys are stupid. Now you've gotta go through a little while of being really hurt, upset, and confused. Cry and scream and talk all the shit that you want. Soon after, you'll be perfectly fine again. And realize that you're totally awesome and metal and way too good for any guy that would do something like that. If you need to talk to someone, I'm the fucking queen of break ups. I know the most horrible feeling is hurting, and hating that person but needing comfort and wanting THEM to be the one to give it to you. It sucks and it's hard, but you will be okay. There will be someone else. Mistakes need to be made and shit needs to happen so you'll learn and be more prepared for a better relationship with the right guy.
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Couldn't have said it better than this, except the "Queen of Breakups" part.

You'll be fine - hang in there. :)
 
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