Any band members like me?

[mousewings]

Do any guys here (especially death metal band members) like me?

I am... um, very interesting...

I feel... unloved........
......well, I don't. It's just that there are no guys who love me, probably as I live in a desolate area where there are no metal fans. : (

This may be the most weirdest post ever.

 

[Alexandre]

You are not alone.

Sometimes I feel that way (and I want to form a really heavy metal band like in the good old days, but it´s not "trendy" anymore, so it´s difficult), but who needs love anyway?


Well, I may love you if you want.

 

[Soulscar]

Perhaps that's just a result of the fact that you live in someplace cold ;-).

But don't worry, I know the feeling when there a too few people around that you have something in common with.
Thoughts like that have often occurred to me with respect to my fellow students who are too different from me, or maybe I am just too different from them - the truth is in the eye of the beholder!

PS: Forgot to mention - I play the guitar in a death metal band....

 

[Malaclypse]

Originally posted by mousewings
Do any guys here (especially death metal band members) like me?

I am... um, very interesting...

I feel... unloved........
......well, I don't. It's just that there are no guys who love me, probably as I live in a desolate area where there are no metal fans. : (

This may be the most weirdest post ever.

love is a strong word, and i refuse myself to use it in relation to people i meet on the internet. i have to look into the woman's eyes to tell that i am in love. yes, you can have insightful discussions over the internet, sometimes better than in the physical world, and you even can lay bare your heart to others, but LOVE... love is a fusion of looks, behaviours, mistakes, intellect, speech, and others that combine to a unique person. and through the internet you only get hold of one piece of the puzzle. i definetely can say wether i like people or not, but i would never be so blind to say i love people on the internet. same goes for you, but i like you very much.



oh am i in a poetic mood today

 

[Khronos]

I know that feeling. Actualy i feel that way too.

 

[FatherVic]

hey mousewings...I like you! but not in the way you're looking for I suppose!
May be you should try another way to approach to ppl rather than saying nobody loves you. What would you get, someone who said would pay to be with you or the one who says you have no money to pay him??? (if he was about giving a job to someone of course)

well just an idea

 

[Melancholia]

little mousewings let things go their way and don't get stressed about the boyzmatters...I understand this feeling of loneliness very well and i can't help you...but i hope one day you'll find the special one you're looking for

and what sth i've always believed:
it's better to be alone waiting/searching for the special one than being with a common asshole

I like you,i like your posts
but well i won't say i love you,cause hhehe you know i'm straight

(will i ever make a purely serious post? )

 

[Alexandre]

I don´t have a problem loving someone I don´t know personally. Sometimes admiring someone is very good and then knowing her is a disaster.

I don´t give LOVE the importance it normally has. I´m not saving myself for anyone special, things change, and I feel one has to enjoy life´s moments (bad or good). I love my friends, my family, I love animals, I love a lot of stuff. As much as I hate.

Yes, this is where it´s at.

 

[Arch]

Love is overrated.
However, I do like all of you guys.

 

[FatherVic]

well we don't like you arch

 

[Melancholia]

Alexandre@ For me love for my friends,love for my family,love for my pets and love for *the one* are somehow different....
of course it's good to live for the moment and enjoy life,but when it comes to relationships i think one should also look deeper....especially if we consider the fact that human are searching for someone to share their thoughts & moments,someone to lean on,someone to trust entirely etc etc....it's a matter of personal philosophy... For me love for people of the other sex (i mean not the friendly love for them) is something sacred....i can't imagine myself wasting it here and there to people who don't deserve it..i prefer to be selective and give it all to someone who really deserves it...

nooo love isn't overrated....love is underrated i think....

 

[Alexandre]

My post might have been misleading... I agree with you:

but when it comes to relationships i think one should also look deeper....especially if we consider the fact that human are searching for someone to share their thoughts & moments,someone to lean on,someone to trust entirely etc etc....it's a matter of personal philosophy... For me love for people of the other sex (i mean not the friendly love for them) is something sacred....

I was trying to explain that I can easily say to a friend (male or female) that I love him/her (I´m not gay ). That does not mean that I make good friends easily.... (wait....) *damn porn banners*

But seriously, I even consider myself a romantic person (in an untraditional way - just read my sig, dammit). It´s impossible to be close to someone if you don´t dedicate yourself to that someone, and it can be amazingly rewarding.

P.S. Quite an avatar you´ve got there, Melancholia

 

[|ngenius]

Ohm, my beloved greek friend. The way you feel the loneliness doesn't matter, the trascendence is on feel the loneliness itself, 'cos you cannot evaluate the pain of another person.

It's easy to advice when you're on the other side, so it's better to open more ways to the person who needs to see clearer. I'm agree with Master Melon, to say you're alone and nobody loves you probably is a false belief and obviously isn't a right way to go through.

There are hidden treasures to find, you can trust on me, but just turn your light on to see them, and let them to see ya.


|ngenius (who's feeling alone the last days, but he never losed his hope, and never will)

|ngenius bis (who started a chupi and forgotten thread to post your thoughts)

 

[Alexandre]

|ngenius,

Where´s Ñaca?

 

[Melancholia]

Alexandre@ 1.*porn banners*??????what the hell are you viewing??
2.I am glad we agree..i thought you were refering to the essence of "love love"... hehe
3.your sig is anathema....primitive anathema,isn't it??? for sure i've seen this before,but can't recall...

Dear Robot@ I know i can't feel loniliness the way she does,simply because we are completely different people...yet i couldn't ignore her post,i felt like i wanted to say some words... I know that when you don't know the other person well advice usually don't help...but some general cliché even advice may give a guideline or sth..
and well...i think that people don't always need advice,but above all they need someone who can listens

yes,all these could be a perfect part of your wise robotian thread....maybe you can resurrect it and share your lonely thoughts with us

 

[Alexandre]

Alexandre@ 1.*porn banners*??????what the hell are you viewing??

I was just kidding.

3.your sig is anathema....primitive anathema,isn't it??? for sure i've seen this before,but can't recall...

It´s My Dying Bride - Sear Me MCMXCIII - you should try it sometime.

 

[Melancholia]

daaaaaaaaaaamn...and imagine i have mdb albums.... and sear me is one of my superfave songs.....
how embarassing

well...shit happens

 

[|ngenius]

Oh, a misunderstood again. I didn't say your words were useless or with lack of meaning. When someone express himself/herself as mousewings did, he/she is requesting some help, opinions, support or simply another pov. So, your contribution to this thread is worthy of compliment, my greek friend.

I tried to explain that usually isn't advisable to focus your forces to wash away the pain, such an evil virus. I think the better direction is to admit the existence of that pain, give your care and support, and then try to open a hole in the dark clouds the affected person is under. We need a light, and the pain isn't bad at all, so you must focus your energy to open more ways.

Finally, I don't advice mousewings to "let things go their way", my advice is: "help things to go through the way you want and don't give up". Sometimes the situation changes by itself, and sometimes it changes with your help. Who may knows? We're almost here.

@Alexander: Near you.


|ngenius (keeping his feelings in secret, nowadays)

 

[Melancholia]

|ng@ no noooooooo,i didn't implied that you implied my words were lacking meaning......i just started rambling based on the fact that two people can't perceive melancholy in the same way...

Originally posted by |ngenius
Finally, I don't advice mousewings to "let things go their way", my advice is: "help things to go through the way you want and don't give up". Sometimes the situation changes by itself, and sometimes it changes with your help. Who may knows? We're almost here.

your advice sounds somehow better and it probably is....
mine sounds at least passive....but sometimes it helps...
maybe a combination of both is the best...
oh well,as you said "Sometimes the situation changes by itself, and sometimes it changes with your help. "we can never know.....

~mel~(loves late night-night????? it's 5.15AM here- discussions)

 

[Thanatos]

Well I haven´t read much about you, but I must say that I like you too, I know that "nobody loves me" sensation too well...
I am not very good for giving advice, I am a good friend however so the only valuable thing I can offer you is my friendship, you know, emailing each other and stuff, you can take it if you like, although it's a strange thing that someone who hasn't talked to you very much, and it's strange for me to be telling you this but, oh well, I'm starting to explain too much, see you.