I could really care less what their fans look like, act like, wear, their age, their stereotype, ect. A band's fans or whatever don't have shit to do with the way I would rate their music. I don't think they're a great band necessarily, but they're definitely different have written some good songs.
I'm 23. I have short hair now (after having long hair for years) & I don't dress to draw attention to myself. I actually have a pretty neat appearance most of the time. I wear jeans & button down shits & I do security for a living. I do not fit this dreaded Cradle of Filth stereotype AT ALL.
If you want a band much better than Cradle of Filth check out Graveworm.