Elitism.
It's very contagious and breeds directly off insecurity. Ever read The Emperor's New Clothes? In case you weren't too into fairy tales at a young age, here's a rundown:
A couple of con-men approach a king and tell him they can weave him the most beautiful clothing in the world that would be so smooth and silky he wouldn't even feel it, but the only catch is that the fabric they use will appear invisible to fools. The con-men ensure this "fact" gets spread quickly throughout the kingdom for good measure, as well. Afterwards, they request a tremendous amount of money to weave it for him, so he agrees and pays them. So, they spend the night pretending to weave imaginary garmets. They approach the king the next day pretending to hold said garmets. Of course the king doesn't see it because well, there's nothing there, but of course he isn't going to say he can't see it as that would reveal him to be a FOOL! Hence, he compliments the "beautiful clothing" and requests to be fitted with it immediately... After the con-men go through the charade of dressing him in it, he proudly parades around his kingdom wearing these wonderfully hand-woven, non-existent clothes. Of course he's naked, but no one says anything seeing that they're terrified to be singled out as an unfit retard who can't see the clothing! So here we have an entire kingdom pretending to see something that isn't there because everyone's terrified of non-conformity. This fairy tale could've also been titled, Society: A Satire.
This was written in like, the 17th century, and the moral still applies to society today, if not stronger, and esp. on music message boards --
These elitists who parade around here feeling elite because they don't conform to what MTV tells them to listen to, are just as guilty as conforming to deciding they don't like a band they probably liked before they came across a message board and got flamed for being ignorant for liking the band!
In all honesty, I used to be guilty of liking whatever the radio told me to listen to, and then I became guilty of not liking everything mainstream because the underground told me I was an ignorant fool for listening to it. (Sound familiar?) Then I grew up at some point, and decided I'd like whatever sounded good to me and inspired me throughout life. Unfortunately, too many people fall into one of the two "I just wanna fit in regardless of what I think I like", and there's absolutely no difference between listening to what MTV tells you to listen to and listening to what the self-elevated poster zealots tell you to listen to. None. Why would there be? They're saying "hop" and you're saying "how high". It's just that one is broadcasted through a TV monitor and the other is broadcasted through a computer monitor!
A lot of these self-proclaimed enlightened metalheads listen to a lot of the bands they don't really like the sound of, but like the fact that they listen to a roster of bands no one's heard of. It makes them feel well-versed to themselves amongst what they see as a gaggle of media-brainwashed mongoloids. They fall back on contentions such as, "I despise the fact that these cookie-cutter nu-metal bands are getting the recognition a lot of REAL metal bands SHOULD be getting", which is a contradiction on their behalf because the moment these metal bands they speak of DOES get the recognition they deserve, they're suddenly accused of selling out, sucking, etc. the usual bullshit. And this is in no way using Metallica as one example. If you ask me to site one awesome metal band beside Metallica that got hated by a large portion of their fanbase simply for becoming popular, I'll just ask you a bigger noodle-cooker -- Site me one metal band that received commercial success and DIDN'T get suddenly hated by a large portion of their fanbase, simply based on their commercial success even if the band didn't in any way, shape or form lose what made them an amazing band in the first place. I'll win that argument!
Listen, music is an art form, and to many, a testament of good taste, which signals intellect and individuality. For these reason alone it will fall into the subject of empty criticism. If a person finds a band they like that no one else is really into, they'll want to share it with the world, in hopes that it'll give other people the same sense of inspiration it gave to them. When they share it with someone who doesn't appreciate it as they do, they'll feel let-down and often, insulted, but when they discover other people who appreciate it, they cling on to these people, because obviously, these people have something in common with them -- high tastes. Soon, this small group of people will gather and huddle in the warmth of conformity with one another, and while they hoist their common ground high in the air and treat it with a collective reverence, they'll feel angst and rebellion toward all the ignorant masses of the world! They'll tell one another things such as, "we are the FEW, the PROUD, the ELITE. While those millions of infidels listen to simplistic music the media spoonfeeds them, we are the handful that actually recognizes true talent. Fuck, we set the standard. None of those fools will ever hope to achieve our level." Wow, and aren't they great! They've seperated themselves from the poor masses.
But alas! This band that the ELITE is holding in regard... suddenly, someone recognizes them! Suddenly, they're getting... god forbid... famous. Oh no! The ignorant masses are eating their material up! OH NO!
"How did this happen? Why do the ignorant fools appreciate what we're listening to all the sudden? They listen to simplistic music such as Linkin Park! They can't comprehend our music! ...Are we fools like they are?"
"NO! ABSOLUTELY NOT! We are the few, the PROUD, the ELITE. It's not US, it's THEM! Our band has betrayed us! They stopped caring about us! They changed their music to appeal to them now, ...or something! Anything! Oh my god, they're on TV now! SELL-OUTS! We hate you! You are NU-METAL! Next month you shall be MALLCORE! The month after? Well, we haven't made up a derogatory name to describe your filth for three months in advance yet, but believe us when we say we'll be gathering in our small quartets with ten fingers ready to dance to your ignorance all day long! We will insult your new ignorant fans! With any luck we can convert them to listen to what we're listening to at the moment! WE WILL GROW, the few the proud the ELITE, and you will FALL, (insert awesome band that actually sold some records here)."
And so it continues. A genre is growing in popularity? Well, let it. Hate is the natural response; insecurity is the natural cause. I don't care. I love metal... it's a fantastic genre of music. Sure, there's a lot of crap out there. I wade through it. Why? Because there will ALWAYS be bands out there that will continue to inspire my life.
These idiots who proclaim the growing popularity of metal will be the death of the genre? Like I said... idiots to the extreme. There will ALWAYS be the truly talented out there who will continue to push the envelope. There will ALWAYS be that guy out there disgruntled with what he feels is a bland state of music, and wants to make a beautiful change... there will always be that drummer, that songwriter, that singer who wants to push the boundaries of music and be the next metal pioneer. It's in our human nature to outdue ourselves. For every cookie-cutter clone out there getting payed for a year to throw some distortion and double-pedals together, there will be that artist eager to show the world what he considers to be REAL music... or a real voice... or a real SOMETHING. Metal cannot die. Metal is music. Metal invokes those who pursue it to push forward.
They are who we look for. They are the only reason we should come to these forums. Should we feel insulted because some insecure putz said we're ignorant for listening to something that puts our soul on another level? Some insignificant screenname who will likely never have any impact on any positive aspect of yours, or anyone's, life? No. You come to this forum to find new bands people are lively discussing. You check them out. Don't like them? Move on. Like them? Listen to them! Someone tell you not to listen to them? Fuck them. Ask yourself, is this what I like? If so, listen. You are your own person and you're in control of what you do and do not like, and NEVER let anyone tell you otherwise.
Wade through these parasites of the beautiful art of metal. Ignore them, understand why they're here, they're purpose, and why they'll never leave as a result of human nature. Understand you're not here to try and change anyone's opinion, and understand you're not here to have anyone change your opinion. You're here to find and discuss new bands. Don't let them bring you down -- they're natural. Don't argue with them -- it's futile. Just enjoy the music.
Fuck elitists.