I guess I fall into that "must be gay" category unfortunately....
I was around when "...Swans" first came out. I can remember quite clearly the impact it had on me and my bandmates at the time (my old doom/death band I was in back then), which was, "Wow, this sorta sucks", lol. I admit that I grew to like it much better over time, but still I don't consider it to be one of my more well-liked MDB albums. Truth be told though, I'm not much of a fan of them anyhow (though some people find that hard to believe), I tend to like certain songs from different albums of theirs, and not really a fan of any album overall. I felt much more of an impact upon first hearing the "Symphonaire..." EP really, but to each their own.
Anathema "Serenades" was an album I actually liked a fair amount when it first came out. I don't think it's really stood the test of time very well. That can be said of many of those early death-doom albums, when playing slow and having something like a violin or female vocals was enough to get you noticed (as is the case with our first cd, which I think is good but doesn't really hold up as well today either). But I have to say that both "...Swans" and "Serenades" definitely were influential albums to the scene in general and spawned quite alot of music that came afterwards, so they are due their respect and regards.