somnium_in_tenebris
Sleeping With Ghosts
- Jun 11, 2002
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@Don i agree with you,up to a point.i have noticed a number of girls being attracted and later on "sticking badly" on guys that either treat them as objects(a bit of lovey dovey,promises and lots of cheating and "i talk you shut up"behaviour)or even beat them badly(hospital).all of which i've met have self-destructive instincts,subconscious Maso-tendency and usually problems with family(no one else to depend on,cos parents are either brutal,or just bad parents).
ive a mate that if you see her you'll get scared by her self-esteem and her "powerful aura.i always admired her when i was younger.until i discovered that shes attracted by problematic,abnormal people(men women) that will supress , morally manipulate and use her.subconsiously she wants it.she didnt listen to either me or her doctor.
i cant understand why being in love makes you a fool and a toy in some people.ive had other mates that got beaten up and treated like shite too.those girls had no self-respect either.they were self-destructive.i tried to help like,but they were not intended to help themselves out of their addiction.
Everybody carves his own way,makes choices that will mark his life.Everybody is responsible for their own actions.If you don't help yourself,you are doomed to fall.Cynical,but life is cynical too and that's what i've learned during my few years here.
ive a mate that if you see her you'll get scared by her self-esteem and her "powerful aura.i always admired her when i was younger.until i discovered that shes attracted by problematic,abnormal people(men women) that will supress , morally manipulate and use her.subconsiously she wants it.she didnt listen to either me or her doctor.
i cant understand why being in love makes you a fool and a toy in some people.ive had other mates that got beaten up and treated like shite too.those girls had no self-respect either.they were self-destructive.i tried to help like,but they were not intended to help themselves out of their addiction.
Everybody carves his own way,makes choices that will mark his life.Everybody is responsible for their own actions.If you don't help yourself,you are doomed to fall.Cynical,but life is cynical too and that's what i've learned during my few years here.