ReaLM said:
Also, I can't understand people who live far away from work for material reasons. It is stupid! Most people don't need a huge house or yard... they won't make you happy. I bought the closest house to ATL that I could afford that I felt was in a safe neighborhood. For the money I paid I could have bought a mansion in Acworth or some other suburban area. If I didn't love to garden so much, I would have bought a condo in midtown instead. People need to rethink there priorities. Won't having 1-3 more hours of free time a day make people happier than having a huge house and yard? My time is very valuable to me.
I'm sure some people have legitimate reasons for there lifestyle, but not most of them. Maybe I just don't understand, but there are a lot of things that go on in this world that I just don't understand.
Robin
Not like you care, but let me give you an example. When I moved up to rural southern WI, I worked 17 miles away in McHenry, and before the bottom fell out, was making nearly 70K/yr. I am in the IT industry, and that industry doesn't thrive in rural areas. My house is 1500 sq feet INCLUDING the basement. It's not stately Wayne Manor by any means, and I'd have to look up my lot size, but it isn't very big. When my job was eliminated in 2002, I sold EVERYTHING I owned of value, music gear, comics, coins, 401K, etc. trying to stay afloat while I looked for work & emptied my unemployment benefits in the first 9 months. When that ran out, I could not even get food stamps from either WI or IL (where I worked). I took odd jobs in consulting, drove/delivered vehicles for a car dealer in Lake Geneva, and finally ended up full time working at Home Depot but not earning enough to afford benefits.
I eventually filed bankruptcy, and managed to hang onto my house. I COULD sell my house, and move closer to my new job, but the housing prices for anything remotely close are completely out of my price range, including 1 bedroom condos. Not to mention fixing things that would need to be repaired
before I could sell. Going back to renting would undermine the savings & sacrifices I made just to get this house 10 years ago and have a home that I OWNED and the small chunk of earth it sits on. My new job climbing back up the ladder again pays less than I made 10 years ago when I purchased my home. So some people can't just up & move. For me it's a choice between cutting off my left leg, my right leg, or just staying put, and hoping for the best. If I could have afforded to live in IL back in 95, I would be there. There was a lot more bang for my $ in WI at that time. and I'm not talking 4000 Sq ft verses 1500 sq/ft. Things are getting better now, but the government is sure doing its best to fuck things up for everyone again. If you've made it this far, thanks for reading. Special thanks go out to those who helped me attend PP the last couple of years, and giving me a a little break from reality during a very DARK time for me. I'm glad I'm able to pay you back, and help a couple others along the way this year...