Amorphis - Far From The Sun
Charon (second and third albums (The Dying Daylights is essential))
Sentenced (last half of their discography, particularly Frozen, Crimson, and White Light)
Moonspell (they've got a few good songs on each album)
Poisonblack's first album (Escapexstacy)
The Mist and the Morning Dew - Demo 2002
Paradise Lost - Gothic
Mandragora Scream - A Whisper Of Dew
To/Die/For - IV
You may also want to check out the "Beauty In Darkness" compilations, Volumes 1 through 6
and female-fronted bands: (which I don't consider half as good as anything above mentioned)
Epica
After Forever
Within Temptation
The Gathering
nothing there should be difficult to find unless you use a shitty p2p