thanks for looking into this for me.....but things were not equal between chick and me. My marriage had fallen apart and hers was just...and inconvenience. During the whole thing, she never had any intention of telling her husband, because "he couldn't handle it". She used the same reasoning to guide her decision several months later when wife found out. Well, she was going to at first, and then she "talked to some people" and they helped her realize it wasn't a good idea to tell him. Whatever.
Oh, and the wife found out because chick wrote me letters, which I just so happened to have in my bag. So, she in fact,
was a direct cause of the wife finding out.
Anyway...in light of this new information....what say you?