I usually put 2 Rode NT1's or NT1000's in the far corners, facing into the corner, away from the kit. That way you get a lot of natural "pumping" already and not much cymbals.
I run them through my TLA PA-1 tube pre into distresoors (stereo linked), 6:1 ratio, fast attack, fast-medium release, about 16 db reduction.
In the mix I usually highpass between 80 and 120 Hz, and sometimes lowpass as low as 5 kHz, sometimes not at all.
I almost always start my mixes with just the room mics and blend the close mics in, one by one. And always check the phase reverse together with the kick, snare and overheads to see what sounds best.