Hook up with the coolest mother fucker you can find to teach you.
That's what I did.
Seventeen years ago in Jackson, NJ, I took lessons from this dude John.
At the time he was playing in Zakk Wylde's pre-Ozzy band, "Zyrus" and ,eventually went on to play with future "Overkill" guitarist, Dave Linsk.
That dude taught me alot in 2 years. After I learned the basics, I started playing along to my two favorite "Live" albums: RUSH "Exit...Stage Left" and IRON MAIDEN "Live after Death" every day after school and developed my ear.
Nowadays I can play anything I hear on the radio and I have no trouble finding people to jam with.
But it all started by hooking up with the right teacher to start me along my path.
Stay focused and you'll accomplish anything.
Have a great journey!!!