lanky noob
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Thanks for that long explanation nimvi, it's stopped me from being so pissed at my old drummer
he had (or rather has) aspergers, and although our band was making a pretty decent impact in the local scene, he jsut became disinterested in it, and as a result of his condition, wanted nothing to do with it, but still came and played shows with us and stuff, but practices were very sparse, and eventually he was just dropping out of major shows at a few days notice, which understandably pissed me and the rest of the band off, but now i've actually got a better understanding as to why he acted like he did, rather than the whole "oh he's probably just depressed and can't be bothered to put the effort in" (he also had a form of depression), whereas now I know it's because he just genuinely didn't want to, but still stuck it out quite a bit for us guys.
he had (or rather has) aspergers, and although our band was making a pretty decent impact in the local scene, he jsut became disinterested in it, and as a result of his condition, wanted nothing to do with it, but still came and played shows with us and stuff, but practices were very sparse, and eventually he was just dropping out of major shows at a few days notice, which understandably pissed me and the rest of the band off, but now i've actually got a better understanding as to why he acted like he did, rather than the whole "oh he's probably just depressed and can't be bothered to put the effort in" (he also had a form of depression), whereas now I know it's because he just genuinely didn't want to, but still stuck it out quite a bit for us guys.