I'm in a sticky situation

Catarina

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Sep 17, 2007
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So there is this punk guy I keep running into in my village. This has been happening for almost a year, and often. I don't know him at all except from when I shopped at the goth store he worked at 8 years ago. The store is closed now. Anyway, it's like I'm supposed to do something. I keep thinking, if he liked me he would have said something by now. I'm not going to change my wandering grounds where I live... and it seems he prefers the same, very limited route as me.:loco: Even though he is usually alone, I get too nervous when I see him :cry: so I just look straight ahead and walk.

Another thing... I have an ex from 7 years ago who still calls me.:Smug: Perhaps he got this bloke to stalk me?

Advice?
 
Why not? You sound competent enough for example.

Also, this in not just in the street but in a food store even. Night or day.
 
The first mistake you made was asking a serious question [regarding a relationship] on this message board. The second mistake was being a female while making mistake one.
Prepare for a deluge of non-serious answers.

For some reason BMWG has given halfway decent advice. There's a shocker.
 
What about just saying hi to him?

Not that I know what you'd possibly talk about with him after that, but that's probably the best way to start. I imagine it would become fairly clear whether he were interested after a brief conversation.
 
Darkyn - True, but I only like him in a friends way, if not only out of appreciation for his boots.
 
What about just saying hi to him?

Not that I know what you'd possibly talk about with him after that, but that's probably the best way to start. I imagine it would become fairly clear whether he were interested after a brief conversation.

But then if he's not interested I have to keep seeing him and having tension. You see, there is only one cool route in my village and neither will leave it.
 
But then if he's not interested I have to keep seeing him and having tension. You see, there is only one cool route in my village and neither will leave it.

Well if you're not able to deal with that possibility then I guess don't say anything to him.