so dont worry about age...and on the + side they say men age gracefully unlike women
haha
in all fairness, without meaning to come off like a sexist cunt
id say there may be a bit of truth to this, not for any biological reasons though
as women get older there's so much pressure for them to buy all this anti-aging shit and look younger and stay perfect rather than just let themselves age with pride
whereas men really don't have that same pressure to stay young and perfect looking
i just don't see how that sort of pressure can be healthy is all
and i can see enough evidence of all this in my grandparents
my grandad died with some pride, of cancer in january, and like before he died we had some of the most profound conversations ever, id never seen the man so at peace with himself and the world
he was always quite understated and subtle, just blended into the crowd rather than making a show of himself to compensate for any insecurities or anything
my nan is the complete opposite, she's a fucking dick and she's only getting worse. she turns uh
fuck
80? this month, and she's one of the most annoying people i know.
she's very glamorous, very over the top, constantly in the lime-light, and she does admittedly look very young for her age but i sometimes think about what that younger looking exterior has done to her head, which is what matters.
its a fucked up world when someone can't be allowed to just age with their pride intact.