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Lunar Strain - raw, pretty old school. Similar to early At The Gates and Dark Tranquility
Subterranean - Genius, but very short. Great melodies, riffs, lyrics, everything
The Jester Race - Incredible. Melodic, heavy, great all the way through
Whoracle - Solid concept album. Songwriting-wise my least favorite good In Flames album, but Jotun is absolutely brilliant
Colony - Very modern sound. Very melodic, but also pretty heavy. Plays around with pop formats at some points. Very good.
Clayman - Last good album. Pretty accesible sound but still very good. Some extremely catchy songs.
Reroute To Remain - Crap
Soundtrack To Your Escape - Deeply mediocre, with a couple good songs
Come Clarity - Crap
Anyhow, you should get them in this order:
The Jester Race
Colony
Subterranean
Clayman
Lunar Strain
Whoracle
btw, they sound nothing like Bodom.