I feel ya. I used to be hard into the gym myself years back when I was in college, but full-time audio work pretty much shatters all your bodybuilding ambitions, trust me. A lot of musos piss their time away getting wasted, and gaming, whereas its the image that takes a great deal of work if they want to get anywhere. Hitting the gym can really pay off in a performing role.
Haha, well I've figured full time audio engineer/production isn't for me.
Went through a period of barely any exercise, and eating shit all the time, and it definitely played a role in worsening my anxiety and depression that was quite severe 2 years ago.
Decided to take up weights since I figured it would keep me healthy and boost my self esteem. I definitely feel more confident already.
I tend to think it's pretty sad (perhaps even pathetic) see guys in bands well in their 30s and beyond still doing the "gotta get wastedddddd!" party thing.
I've pretty much already grown out of binge drinking. My frequent partying days were fun, wont lie, and wouldn't have traded many of those nights for anything, but it seems like at some point you've gotta realize that you've already experienced it plenty of times and you've gotta move on.
Some of my mates give me shit for barely partying and rarely ever drinking alcohol now and I always find it funny that people will piss on you for trying to really better yourself. I'm just hoping they'll realize soon what motivates you as an adult shouldn't really be the same shit that motivated you as a 16-18 year old kid.
I imagine Petrucci got the whole "You've got no life" thing back in high school for playing guitar all day after school. And now look, he's achieved more than all those fuckers and could beat 'em all up easily haha.
I know that certainly happened to me a few times (being told I had no life because I was actually passionate about stuff wasn't out taking meth on the weekend), of course always from people barely intelligent enough to tell their own arse from their face.
Oh boy, that was a bit of a long one. Getting late again I suppose.