Yes. And it's got nothing to do with point I made earlier.
If something is loud, it's loud. There is nothing wrong with it.. The problem is that very few can pull that off without compromising the potential of the song and the mix. And to some extent, it can not be pulled off by anyone, when reaching for levels you see to day.
When people start going "geewez, if i just shave of a little low end from the bass and clip the master I can make it little louder". That's not decission based on musical preference.. That's just bullshit. Nothing more. No matter how you turn it around.
There is a cycle, you see.. When you start compromising your mix for stupid shit, there is no telling where it will take you. "I can't have this much bass or it won't go to x rms, I can't have that much stuff on the sides" etc. It very easily turns into how it MUST be done. And thinking that it actually has to sound like that.. And reading threads here, for many it has.
I like to make my desicisions based on musical preference.. "Does it sound good?" "Will that compromise the loudness of the mix?" is not a decision based on musical preference.
I'm not saying that loud mixes all sound like shit, far from it. You can smash the
everlovin' christ out of your 2buss and the mix can still be great. But I'd wager
my nuts that 10/10 times a well done mixing with proper mastering will always triumph.
The whole thing is more about guys flailing their cocks around rather than making music. Which is off course fine if your into that sorta thang.