- Jan 21, 2012
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Hey metalheads!
I have had a bit of an issue with metal scene connections. You see, I was friends with a member of one band in the States. I had been going through some personal issues affecting my social skills, and said somethings I shouldn't have. and even though I apologized, the band just stopped talking. OK Fair enough. But then it gets weird. I had changed my FB name for a different reason, then added Lars Petrov from Entombed. Few days passed, never really messaged him. But then I change my name back and BAM! Off Lars' friendslist that day. And then I remembered that Amarth toured with the US band I had issues with. Well, turns out they fed the story to Ted Lundstrom, who has an FB, and I guess he spread the word. Because NOBODY in Scandinavia who plays metal will accept my friend request/messages. Now since I'm moving to Scandinavia, I want to make sure that this doesn't haunt the rest of my metal career. And it's really hurtful because I was going through a problematic time, where I didn't even know my actions were uncalled for Sorry for the length...can the guys in bands here shed some light? i don't think the original band knew how much this ruined my life...
I have had a bit of an issue with metal scene connections. You see, I was friends with a member of one band in the States. I had been going through some personal issues affecting my social skills, and said somethings I shouldn't have. and even though I apologized, the band just stopped talking. OK Fair enough. But then it gets weird. I had changed my FB name for a different reason, then added Lars Petrov from Entombed. Few days passed, never really messaged him. But then I change my name back and BAM! Off Lars' friendslist that day. And then I remembered that Amarth toured with the US band I had issues with. Well, turns out they fed the story to Ted Lundstrom, who has an FB, and I guess he spread the word. Because NOBODY in Scandinavia who plays metal will accept my friend request/messages. Now since I'm moving to Scandinavia, I want to make sure that this doesn't haunt the rest of my metal career. And it's really hurtful because I was going through a problematic time, where I didn't even know my actions were uncalled for Sorry for the length...can the guys in bands here shed some light? i don't think the original band knew how much this ruined my life...