I am just glad that my social life is not over-analyzed by strangers, because I'd tear my hair out reading about fanfictions, where people run the little nuggets of information they heard about me regarding friends or acquintances and vice versa through friendship theory, and reach some whimsical conclusions. I mean this is some tabloid level discussion.
Our Shakespeare had a great point about Anders and Jesper being extremely similar, so most of the awkwardness comes from them. Plus IF has probably been pissy about hearing "IS THIS OLD IN FLAMES????" for like ~23 years now, I mean we are all fucking tired of these questions and discussions and its not even our band. I can understand why it's just an extra layer of annoying, that now they get the additional THE questions as well. I skimmed through two THE interviews yesterday with Peter, and he seemed equally annoyed, when the interviewers were talking about old IF sound. IF wants to be IF, THE wants to be THE. Anders and co. could've gotten better media training, but metal musicians near their 50s won't give a crap about that.
You didn't mention it, but it also sunded to me that there were arguments with Niclas about his availability to tour. Once again, you could kinda understand both sides.