I played "The drapery falls" for one of my friends and he thought "they felt to sorry for themselves". He didn't hear the growling stuff. Besides he's kind of prejudiced of things he doesn't know. He's never heard Type O Negative, but he's still convinced that they suck big-time and that they sound like Nine Inch Nails, Ministry or some other industrial shit! It might sound a little weird that he thinks Opeth feels to sorry for themselves when he's a major fan of Jeff Buckley.