firewalkjen
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It's pretty much all about looks for me, maybe I'm sensual, maybe I'm a pervert - I'm not sure.
For the first few months, at least, the looks do it for me more than the personality and geist.
I agree as you have to have that initial attraction, but personally, if someone is Hot as Hell with a shitty personality, that will get old really quickly.
Generally men are more visual anyway, so it's not perverted to say.