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Viking Bastard
With that attitude, forget it. And even if it does work out, would be you be happy settling for someone who 'isn't too unachievable'? Seems to me like your state of mind needs to get sorted out before you're ready to be with someone - but that's just me.
Unless you're just going for casual sex, in that case, as long as you're honest with her and yourself, go for it!
Oh no, the girl I love crushes my heart on a daily basis. This is just a slut I want to fuck.