I use presets all the time - there is absolutely nothing wrong with it, and you shouldn't feel like a "cheat" for using them. This is how you learn.
Also...I wish women came with presets.
Preset 1 - Sex (tweak the "wet" setting to control the amount of sluttiness and kink).
Preset 2 - Doing laundry
Preset 3 - Doing dishes
Preset 4 - Preparing food