OK, the bottom line disappeared cause Horza started making hostile, though true, points without remembering that I'm the least manly hetero male in the northern Europe anyway.
Point: If you're uncomfortable with who you are, then change. It's easy. Just choose your goals and start working towards them and a small but important part of the change is already made.
Humanistipaskaa, lol. Just don't forget Pantera and Black Label Society while your at it