Some men....

[Tee]

And what comes after that?

habit?

 

[TwistedSister]

Yeah probably. Stupid life :Smug:

 

[Dead_Lioness]

I know so many girls that"like to be treated like shit...
they date losers that treat them so badly, yet they are still with them
just because they are "cool" or in a certain "band" or god knows what...
I've heard it all.
I simply do not get it.
If someone treats me like shit, he's out the door, doesn't it make sense??????


well, to me at least.





TwistedSister: I agree with Derek: you are a beautiful woman,
Don't let anyone treat you less than what you deserve!

 

[derek]

is chemical love the same as infatuation?

Nope.

 

[dreaming neon darkspot]

the last guy i was "with", i wasn't even with. psycho guy i slept with who wanted abolutely nothing to do with me afterwards, not even for sex even though we were still fucking around. he left in december and i was just ridiculously self-hating, thinking, he'd be the best i'd ever get as far as physical attractiveness and just someone willing to fuck me.

then i met this new guy, friend of one of my manager's, we started off as friends and then he made it clear that he was attracted to me and now we're together. he's the absolute polar opposite of the psycho and i guess it's just now settling in my brain that there's someone who cares about me and has respect for me. i guess i am still of that ilk of women who are addicted to the guys who treat them like shit ... if psycho was still here, i'm sure i'd still be going after him. it felt like the whole "this is what i deserve, this is just my level" thing with psycho. i guess it's just a self-esteem thing ... and considering how insecure some women can be and what it drives some of them to do ... the shitty guys can become less of a choice to be with and more of the only option even if we've got better people.

 

[Det Som Engang Var]

Twisted Sister as a man let me tell you we are nothing but scum, dont let us get you down.

 

[WhiteBeastofWotan]

Speak for yourself bitch!

jk

He's right.

 

[derek]

the last guy i was "with", i wasn't even with. psycho guy i slept with who wanted abolutely nothing to do with me afterwards, not even for sex even though we were still fucking around. he left in december and i was just ridiculously self-hating, thinking, he'd be the best i'd ever get as far as physical attractiveness and just someone willing to fuck me.

then i met this new guy, friend of one of my manager's, we started off as friends and then he made it clear that he was attracted to me and now we're together. he's the absolute polar opposite of the psycho and i guess it's just now settling in my brain that there's someone who cares about me and has respect for me. i guess i am still of that ilk of women who are addicted to the guys who treat them like shit ... if psycho was still here, i'm sure i'd still be going after him. it felt like the whole "this is what i deserve, this is just my level" thing with psycho. i guess it's just a self-esteem thing ... and considering how insecure some women can be and what it drives some of them to do ... the shitty guys can become less of a choice to be with and more of the only option even if we've got better people.

I'm happy for your happiness.

Imagine I just said that in a Star-trek, Admiral Spock accent and it becomes a tonne funnier!

 

[WhiteBeastofWotan]

huhuhuhuhuhuh <3

 

[lizard]

Hey dnd it may not last forever but live for the joyous moments, we are cast into this existence unwillingly and so must grab our moments before they can slide beyond our grasp.

 

[Tee]

I know so many girls that"like to be treated like shit...
they date losers that treat them so badly, yet they are still with them
just because they are "cool" or in a certain "band" or god knows what...

where the hell do you meet such pieces... (don't say: "in bars", like a person I used to know would)

 

[Tee]

actually.... ignore my previous post, I kinda got the picture.

 

[Captain Beard]

I wish I did.

 

[Tee]

what?

 

[Dead_Lioness]

Laura, for what its worth: I'm happy for you and your happiness.
You do deserve the best, there is no doubt in my mind.
If someone can't be with you 100% then don't ever let him into your life,
not for lousy 50% 0r 75%.... you know?
I'm glad you found a good nice guy girl

 

[Dead_Lioness]

actually.... ignore my previous post, I kinda got the picture.

haha yeah

The assholes are everywhere.... it doesn't take rocket science to
spot them either... I think all girls at some point in their lives fell for those
ass holes... (I know I have!)
Some get up, dust off the dirt from their clothes and move on.
and some.. well, some stay on the ground waiting for another ass hole to step on them...
sorry for the bad metaphore, but I don't think any girl or even any guy for that matter, should "stay on the ground" no one deserves to be treated like shit!

 

[Liverslapper]

most men can be complete assholes, the cycle of love can be a bitch. i've been in a relationship for 3 1/2 years now, getting married this May

i say that we all plan to get wasted or high one day, and start a thread...i wonder the shit people would come up with! lol

 

[Mitton]

I have been with a "lover" for almost two years now and I hate it, because my eyes have finally opened to discover what she is like, but I cant just walk away because she told me she loves me. So a note to all you women out there DON'T ever say that.
But if the chemicals that control love only last 18 months then maybe mine have worn off and since there is no Necessity or social norms maybe there isnt a reason to be together...............Apart from sex.

 

[Babykabob]

most men can be complete assholes, the cycle of love can be a bitch. i've been in a relationship for 3 1/2 years now, getting married this May

i say that we all plan to get wasted or high one day, and start a thread...i wonder the shit people would come up with! lol

Congrats on the marriage! and I say that you came up with a GREAT idea on that thread