Great thread!
Ever since I've been writing on my own I've been having massive trouble writing anything resembling a song. I will usually write a very cool riff or two and leave it there. I don't ever finish shit. And when I have three or four riffs it goes into riff salad and I have no clear verse or chorus.
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This EXACT same thing happens to me (I also happen to play BM).
jamming on a cool drum loop
That's a first for me, also. If I get lazy and don't get to write a drum part for the guitar riff I just came up with, the riff will become an 'orphan' from drums for a
very long time. One good thing about it though is that if I pick it up later, I'll have a 'fresh' set of ears and it will be a little as if another person would be 'pitching in', making things more interesting generally (I don't have a band I do everything myself). But of course if I write both things at the same time, it will be much more 'tight', albeit not as complex or unexpected.
I used to write a riff at a time and then began to orchestrate it (I write orchestral stuff). That makes matters worse, because not only did I have different riffs w different tempos/keys/drum patterns, but also different sets of instruments. It's all nice and great until the time comes when I have to join at least 2 of these suckers. I'd say to myself something like 'ok now you two riffs will stay together wether you like it or not' and then, if it proves absolutely impossible (after a shitload of time wasted) I end up creating a small bridge of ridiculous complexity to somehow try to 'frankestein' the two parts together. Most times I will end up with a messy indescribable turd, but the thing is, the very few times it actually does work...
The new approach I'm trying since a few months ago is writing only guitars and drums, hand in hand, in a single tempo and a single key, trying to avoid the temptation of dwelling into a single riff as much as possible. But so far that's not cutting it.
In black (orchestral at least) the greatest songs (or at least the ones I like most) are the ones that have so many elements blended together that you can spend literally
years listening to them (as a fan) and you will always discover more and more details because of a somewhat 'unified complexity'. The unifying part is what breaks my balls; the 'complexity' part I have it more than narrowed down
No GP for me, as I have a SERIOUS case of short memory, and so if I don't hit record and play the riff
instantly, the riff will be gone FOREVER (man I've lost such GREAT ideas for not recording them at the moment). If I start figuring out the notes with a friggin mouse, the muse will be gone after a bar and a half..
I've learned to run and record ideas or hum them/write them/memorize them etc with the same urge as if I had diarrhea or something