WASPdate

lurch70 said:
what I learned over the years, is that the #1 thing women, and most people want, s to feel "safe" with someone.
being a broke ass with no goals ... well ... love ain't gonna last long

That's exactly right (although the woman's age is a factor).

Case in point:

Where men put so much bias on looks, women do the same with security. I'd say the "personality attribute" is about equal between men and women.

If you formulate:

Men: Good looking chick + shit personality? Hump then leave.
Men: Good looking chick + great personality? Winner.

Women: Rich guy + shit personality? Winner (if the chick is somewhere between 18-26)
Women: Rich guy + great personality? Winner (if the chick is somewhere between 27-35)

Women over 35 are at this point desperate and will probably go to a sperm bank just to get knocked up.

EDIT: Note that "Good looking chick" and "Rich guy" are constants, respectively.
 
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security is all well and good but life can throw shit your way that will destroy all hope of security and crush you like a turd under a tractor
when the woman is supportive in those times and doesn't just fucking whine on ....thats her test
 
Right, that's why it's important (I think) to marry later in life. No rush I say. I married at 29.

The fact is, girls are attracted to dickheads for a good portion of their life (it's in the DNA), and you have to wait until they grow out of it I suppose.
 
Yeah I'm sure by 30 I'll be ready to give up. :loco:

Actually to be perfectly honest, I could totally go for a wife right about now. I doubt I'll find one anytime soon, but I think I'm beyond that "I'm too young for marriage" stage. Or who knows, I don't.
 
haha. more the general pattern of 90% of al chicks. Soon as they realize you're a nice guy they ditch you for the first drug peddler/thug they can find.
 
*Changes come in from the field, Stacie gets a copy, then whichever estimator
did the job gets theirs.

*Turn around time should be no more than a week, including visiting a jobsite if necessary.
(Exceptions are if more changes are expected from the field, prior engagements, etc.)

*Check contract, type up request, mark change in Jamie's files on spreadsheet.

*Give Becky and/or Stacie completed copy.

*???

*Profit!

I should bring that to my meeting.
 
Erik said:
my dad was 55 when i was 10. shrug. i don't see what's so weird about it.

Sally: Charlie Chaplin had kids when he was 70!
Harry: Yeah, but he was too old to pick them up.

It's just a personal thing for me. I absolutely recognize (in this day and age) that people are getting older and older before deciding to have kids.

Right about now, I'm going to be 45 when my oldest turns 14 and I think it's good not to have such a huge age gap. I'd like to be able to relate to the kids somewhat.

My dad was 50 when I was 15 and I couldn't relate to him at all. Just too much of an age gap at that point, but yeah, it all depends on the individuals.
 
My dad turned 50 this year. He married when I was 26, we get along pretty decently, like some of the same music and he's fuckin funny and still gets fucking hammered sometimes and has a great time :lol:


I hope to have kids by the time I'm in my early 30s. I do want to be able to watch them grow without worrying about expiring myself anytime soon.
 
Demilich said:
is there anything to back this up or is it just some good old fashioned homespun wisdom?

It's a sweeping statement for sure, but I'd say for the large part, there is something built into the DNA of a girl which makes her

(a) attracted to the dickhead (mostly the guy that shows the least interest)
(b) think that she can "change" the guy (tame the beast, so to speak)

This is iterative until she wakes up one day and realizes she's no longer 19. This normally happens at around 27. I've done a few years worth of research on this, but alas, the dog ate my homework.
 
My brain is fucking failing me today. Can't get my thoughts together enough to even answer you, JK. gonna go smoke some pot and hope that fixes all my problems.