oh I forgot to add about the trouble I went through with my IM this morning, I woke up and it wouldn't work, apparantly my family had been using the actual AOL service, and it ended today, but they have some rule where screen names started on AOL die when the AOL subscription runs out.. so I called, and bitched, and seems the only way to revive it was to pay $2.95 for another month of using AOL email ... I don't want to keep paying that forever, heh.. so in the next few weeks I need to come up with a new screen name!!!