and why is it that it's expected for women to enjoy, or at least engage in anal sex and you see pornographic videos of women pretty much achieving orgasm through anal sex when all they have to stimulate is nerve endings, yet men (or at least some) have actual glands in that area that can be sexual in purpose, but the idea of a heterosexual man engaging in any kind of anal stimulation is so taboo and damaging to his heterosexuality?
and if that's the deal, all it means is that gay guys just have better sex than straight guys because more parts of them are being stimulated?
is THAT why there's such a stigma surrounding being gay?
you wouldn't figure that's the reason, especially in a society as sexual and repressive of it as ours, where pretty much anyone's reasons for anything are sexually-motivated.
i'm still confused.