Bloody hell, you don't ask for much, do you
OK, here goes..........
"The Angel..." utterly changed my life, and I don't mean in some small 'I'd never heard doom before and was blown away' type thing (though that does happen to be the case
), it actually changed everything. So I guess really it has to be that album. The guitar riffs, the way the violin interplays with them, the solid vocals; everything is just so wonderful and bleak.
BUT
the band are way too complex, and the albums too varied for me to just say 'listen to this album and you will see everything the band is about', because you won't.
For instance, "TAATDR" has personal implications, but I'd go along with the general consensus that "Turn Loose The Swans" is their best album, interms of everything the band is about- it captures the utterly oppressive riffs of the first album & EPs (which are fantastic also), and the more gothy/romantic-type atmosphere of later albums, so if you're looking for a diffinitive album, it's probably that.
All the other albums are excellent, though, one of the few bands of which I love every album, so it's kinda hard for me to seperate them out like this- I think more in terms of the band, not so much individual albums (if I put one cd on, I end up listening to them all, very time consuming
).