Thanks mate
Seems like letting them sit in outweighs the cons.
Hey setyouranchor,
I know that I'm one of the few that thinks this is a bad idea. I would say let him sit in and critique if he paid for this service. I would absolutely not teach him while this is going on. This could very well become a nightmare scenario since you mentioned he is a prefectionist in the mixing stage alone but, additionaly to stop and teach him while this is going on might continually break the momentum of your mixing.
Not to mention after, you start teaching him now; he will not stop until you have taught him literally everything that you know. He will begin to ask to sit on all of your mixing sessions with other bands no doubt and the pain in the ass factor will continue.
If you keep feeding into this friends' will; this won't stop.
I honestly don't see any positives to letting this particular friend sit in on your sessions.
With other bands. Sure. With this guy. No. He will without a doubt drain you mentally at first and then monetarily after he starts taking away your business.
In response to:
"I really don't see all the fuss. If it took setyouranchor four to five years to get where he's at now, how could this one dude get "up to speed" with that in one session?"
A: He won't stop bothering setyouranchor after this session ends for recording knowledge. This can very well evolve into continually taking advantage of setyouranchor's kindness and knowledge; just to set himself up to possibly steal his clients. A response to this may be "Well if his mixes aren't as good then he won't steal business." Sadly, this is not how local small markets work. Most people know absolute fuck all about what constitutes a good mix and will often go to engineers with factors of price, connections, and just simply being a friend of a friend.
"Come on, guys. Studios have interns all the time. Sure, they learn a ton during the internships, and I'm probably trying pick up one more month-long internship in March, but the interns aren't exactly stealing the engineers' knowledge, are they? I can't help but feel like when you guys are talking about "learning on your own" and shit, that quite a bit of your know-how originates from this forum.."
A: There is a difference between an audio engineer deliberately asking for interns to help out and possibly train in at studio; to high-jacking a mixing session and non-stop bugging on AIM etc without even wanting to train someone.
Yes, every person on this board has learned from this forum. Does that mean since we have once learned something that we deserve to unwantingly be coerced into training some pain in the ass person at our inconvenience?
I'm not being mean or angry or anything at all. Setyouranchor, had a feeling that this might not be a good situation. I'm agreeing with that and stating the reasons why that I believe this way.