I don't know if you have access to a university library system with subscriptions to journals. Anyway, some relevant articles are, in order of importance: (these references aren't formatted because finishing my thesis deprived me of all motivation to do that without good reason)
1)Ivan Arreguín-Toft
International Security, Vol. 26, No. 1 (Summer 2001), pp. 93–128 How the Weak Win Wars: A Theory of Asymmetric Conflict
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SARA McLAUGHLIN MITCHELL
BRANDON C. PRINS
JOURNAL OF CONFLICT RESOLUTION, Vol. 48 No. 6, December 2004 937-961
Rivalry and Diversionary Uses of Force
3) Barbara F Walter
International Organization 60, Winter 2006, pp+ 105–135
Information, Uncertainty, and the Decision to Secede
Yes, that's just three journal articles, but it all references a lot of the other research and data. A well regarded book I own, which makes some way towards arguing what you're saying, although not in as succinct a fashion is Losing Control by Paul Rogers.
Anyway, now I will move on to make some comments that aren't entirely related to the above articles. If Al Qaeda were the enforcer of the rights of the people's of the third world, against the atrocities committed by the West, the world and international relations would be much more simple than it really is. The entire Yugoslav conflict and particularly the manner in which it ended was one massive repudiation of the whole "the West bombs Muslims and is evil" idea that apparently exists in the minds of millions of people and must be ardently defended as the whole truth, by liberal minded academics. Want another example? Lets go a little further back in history, to the Soviet invasion of Afghanistan. So, as a proxy war against the commie Russians, the US supported the Muhajideen in various ways. Now, who keeping the poor people down? Well that's a little complicated, was it traditional Afghan land owning elites manipulating religious conservatism amongst the masses to avoid having their land nationalised, was it the Russian, imperialist and with the spectre of white and Russian supremacy still looming over any actions they take in the neighbouring countries? Was it the Americans? Keeping the Muslim world unstable by weakening the pro Soviet authorities? I don't see any basis to have a single minded, ideologically driven conclusion on that question.
The other side to any argument in the West's favour in these matters would have to, to be honest and worthwhile, cover the decolonisation process, including the creation of national borders in places like Iraq and other countries. Other matters to consider are the plotted and actually regime changes that removed leaders who worked against the West's, specifically, Britain, France and the United State's economic interests. I would accept these as all legitimate evidence of the West acting decisively against the economic and social interests of Muslims. However, they did not in any tangible way benefit none Muslims in Muslim societies and little Western foreign policy, after Gladstone (bar Operation Nemesis) seems to have been conducted in such a manner. Basically, the West kept the capital in its hands, as one would expect.
Under scrutiny, I find that socialism in the Soviet Union, as an economic system, failed, not because of Western actions, but despite them. Despite the fact that Canada allowed the S.U. to continually buy huge amounts of grain that it's own deeply flawed agricultural system was unable to produce, the Soviet economy still basically failed even if you turned a blind eye to that particular fact. Is this relevant? Yes, the failures of the Soviet Union are directly related to the failure of the Arab states in their wars against Israel and those failures had dramatic long term consequences in those countries. The failure of Soviet technology in those wars was very important.
The ability of the United states to invade a country in the Muslim world increased dramatically with the fall of the Soviet Union, with Iraq (First Gulf War)being the most obvious example. That's a hard point to evidence, because the contemporary record of it is pretty old now, but I mean, elements in the reactionary right of Russia tried to provide political support to Saddam, but all ended up being a big joke as Russia was so weakened that to project its power in a way that challenged America in that location had become unthinkable.
What else messed things up for the Muslims? Mainly themselves. Arab Nationalism, although it involved many Christians from the onset, was basically some Muslims looking at Hitler and thinking, "hey, he knew how to manipulate people, lets do the same thing here and if we don't have any minorities left do scapegoat, we can have a big rally around the flag over attacking Israel, only, drive the tanks slowing (Iraq literally did that) because we don't actually want to end up losing a conflict so badly that it results in regime change on our side, Israel isn't worth that." So, with fascist leaders who were a bit like massively corrupted Hitlers, the region stagnated. Is the West to blame for that? Only if you have a strange combination of Western supremacy and guilt in your mindset that pushes you towards thinking that the West should be able to do what is best for everyone, everywhere, whilst allowing for cultural relativism and also being expected to predict very long term trends in other societies.
Who should the West have supported in the Lebanon Civil War? The Gemayel family? Islamists? There is no simple answer to these matters even if "doing what is best for Muslims" were the only objective.
The fact that Ahmadiyya, Bahá'í and Sufi progressions from conservative Islam have failed to attract the majority of Muslims in the world seems to me to be something quite unrelated to the West. You can say that the French invasion of Algeria lead to Wahhabism and that the only reason things are bad in Saudi Arabia is because the West buys their oil, but frankly, you would be uttering whiteness studies, overly apologist nothingness. If anything, the kind of idiots that do that probably motivate the Breiviks of this world, who read quoted versions of rants by old liberals, on right wing blogs about Islam in Europe. The French invasion of Algeria, such a wound in the foot of hard line left wingers and self loathing westerners, was actually accelerated into being by something that threatens the core of their being, politically, that is, the large scale enslavement of white people from Western Europe and the Americas, by Arabs.
I hope some of the data in the articles I've referred you to and my points after that part edge you towards the right direction.