I'm probably a total "n00b" taste wise (in all senses, actually, I started with Morbid Angel about...ummm...two years back?)
but I appreciate various styles, including some of the "BLAHGHHGFHGFGHFGHFHFGFD" stuff.
I also appreciate plenty of Gothenburg stuff.
I like some of the new Mayhem (though I wouldn't argue that it is, in essence, not really MAYHEM)
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I started with Morbid Angel. I tried for a while first actually, I liked the music but hated the vocals (was mostly listening to Blessed). After about trying it three times over, it clicked. I didn't move much beyond them for a fair amount of time, ordered Blessed from Earache, got it, came with stickers for Decapitated and December Wolves.
I downloaded Spheres of Madness from Earache and I liked it a lot but wasn't too concerned with expanding. I also tried out bands I read about in interviews with Trey, like Angel Corpse and Vader. Angel Corpse did nothing for me, but I really dug Vader (started with Xeper, and Litany remains my favorite album).
Somewhere along the way, I downloaded both of Decapitated's albums, never listened to them much, downloaded all of Morbid Angel's Earache catalog (this is all from Emusic, so tis legal, tho I don't think that's a concern of many...) and blah blah blah.
I have always hated Cannibal Corpse though, we do laugh at their song titles and lyrics though.
Anyway, from then I had a guy I knew who was into death and the like from some forums I go to. I said, hey, hook me up.
He suggested Pungent Stench and early Carcass (he hates Heartwork and Swan Song). I still didn't dig the gore thing.
Somewhere along the way, in my bizarre fascination with scaring and/or pissing people off whilst driving, I decided Decapitated was the heaviest, loudest most "horrifying" band I had currently, so I burned their two albums to CD and played them in my van leavin' high school all the time. Somewhere along the way I went... holy shit, these solos are cool as crap, and kinda melodic. Then I started to notice the rhythm and (sort of) melody of the rhythmic guitar parts.
I started listening to it ALSO because I liked it.
I still didn't branch out TOO much though.
Then, ah, college. There I met Mr. Opethian Soul man who told me to download Emperor and Slaughter of the Soul and yadda yadda on and on (including, naturally, Opeth).
Blah blah blah, a year later I've been informing him about some bands, and so on, and blah.
I still love Decapitated and plenty of "br00tal" and "Technical" bands.
Check out Decapitated tho, seriously, I think anyone here *might* really be appreciative. Spheres of Madness is great fun, and is over at earache's website.