God dude I love your mixes ....
My issue is she doesnt sing with any power. I am struggeling with right now myself right now as we just picked up a clasically trained female opera singer as a lead vocalist. Shes a huge Within Temptation fan but she just doesn't understand HOW to get the vocal tone ...lol
I am trying to get her to BELT OUT some shit but shes giving me the "I dont want to ruin my voice" speech. Its all that airy heady vocal shit like this. These vocalists are so hard to work with when it comes to metal.
What everyone is hearing is her vocal technique that doesnt fit the music. Its not how Glenn mixed it at all. Although the 2nd version is better, its still not quite what should be over this type of music. She needs to give you more volume when she sings, theres a section in the bridge where she does it PERFECT (1:23). If she would have sang the entire song like that it would have been fucking amazing. If you notice that little section sounds PERFECT in every way, it's the way she sang it, she came off her diaphram for 3 seconds and just gave you all the power in her lungs and it lends a certain type of "grit" i guess you could call it. Her voice thins out a bit and get kinda piercing. THATS how these chicks need to sing over this stuff.
Alas not your fault Glenn, love those drums and guitars though man! Kick ass!