Anyway I suppose I should admit that most of my jeans are from Topman... I don't know if Topshop has a very faggy stigma attached to it in the US (or even if it exists/is very big in the US). But over here it's essentially our Hot Topic, just without the goth/emos.
I don't wear jeans, but i do most of my shopping at the Salvation Army. Hope that helps you girly girl.