is it possible to side chain a multi band? this would allow the kick to only trigger compression in freq. that are clashing, and leave the rest sounding more natural.
often for rock-stuff....
never needed it in a metalmix though.
I think ducking the bass with the kick doesn't work well for stuff with fast doublekicks, stuff will just start pumping and fluttering.
to be honest...I'm even not using parallel comp on drums that often lately...
my mix-settings are pretty simple and basic tbh...makes things easier and faster.