I´m single...

quoricsant said:
The only great things about it really (the only ones I knew, at least):

1. The sex is all the better (if you allow yourself to be deluded)
2. Have someone to talk stupid shit with.

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Well I gotta admit, this chick I dated ages ago was insane in bed, but good lord, as dumb as a monkey.
The shit talk is fun to fill some time, but if that's all you can talk about, you'll lose my interest pretty quickly.
 
I am married, but I had a period on my life that I even avoided sex to avoid stupid girls. To fuck, I needed to talk and LISTEN, and boy, listening to some girls is hard. Internet porn and guitars were my best friends for a while until the thing got really tough and I endured some talking and listening, and that never lasted more than 4 fuck sessions.

That being said, if you find the right girl, just don't screw up.
 
dwdrums said:
dude, here in aus we dont have many good ones haha

unless you're a complete wanker..

funny how it works
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Nah, wankers don't get quality women.
They can get girls that are physically attractive but honestly any guys that's at least average looking and has confidence can do that.
Those kinda girls also have as much egotistical traits and are just as self absorbed as them, something to avoid.

Quality women are ones that have the proper mindset for the long haul, are actually interesting to talk to, really loyal, have good self esteem but aren't narcissistic/egotistical/self absorbed and just understand the need for a relationship to be a true two way straight.
The only guys that get those kinda women, are the nice guys that have plenty of confidence in themselves that know how to be assertive and firm, but never aggressive (like a douchebag would be)
 
Harry, your words in gods ear.

I do believe the same, but sometimes it's hard to not loose the faith!

The best thing one of my closest mates told me straight after the end of a 3 year relationship:
Life goes one.
Other mothers have beautiful daughters, too.

At this moment I loved to punch his face:lol:

I have no tips, what for someone works may not work for you.
Be positive and don't change your behavior, stay nice and respectful!
 
Just adding my 2 cents, most has already been said but just backing it up. Was with my ex for 2 and a half years (not much compared to some of you guys), when it ends you feel like your never gonna find anyone else, or you dont want to. But, you do and you realize how much of a cock your ex was! Stay strong bromosexual! Sucks at first but honestly, it gets SOOO much easier. You also NEED to hang with friends. Family wasn't that helpful for me personally, but friends did a fuck load. You need to keep smiling and laughing!
 
quoricsant said:
Been alone for almost eleven years now myself..
Oh yeah I'm dead inside :Smokedev:
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Bekanor said:
Same here, been single for 10 years straight.

Stopped caring about that somewhere around year 5.
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Year 6-7 here; Damn the time flies. When I was working I did quite a bit of FOH mixing and touring, I noticed that most girls hate that they can't see me most of the year because my job keeps me on the road, so I just stopped looking. Maybe I should date someone who is also constantly away from home so that we could see eachother on like twice a year.
 
ahjteam said:
Year 6-7 here; Damn the time flies. When I was working I did quite a bit of FOH mixing and touring, I noticed that most girls hate that they can't see me most of the year because my job keeps me on the road, so I just stopped looking. Maybe I should date someone who is also constantly away from home so that we could see eachother on like twice a year.
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that sounds like a good idea, sex would be so damn good cause you would both be terribly horny when you saw each other haha
 
ahjteam said:
Year 6-7 here; Damn the time flies. When I was working I did quite a bit of FOH mixing and touring, I noticed that most girls hate that they can't see me most of the year because my job keeps me on the road, so I just stopped looking. Maybe I should date someone who is also constantly away from home so that we could see eachother on like twice a year.
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Yes ahjteam!
Just find a girl who doesn't stress with that thing -> "being away"
maybe a fashion model haha ;) over there in finland, you're full of models I guess ;)
 
After getting dumped this year by the girl I thought I'd end up marrying (we dated for almost a year, but we'd been friends for just as long or longer) I can offer this....

Just move on.

I know thats easier said then done, but its true.

My ex in question couldn't handle my depression (I was having a shit year, which turned out to get worse!). And thinking, well fuck, if she couldn't handle that then what COULD she handle? It was a blessing in disguise. Now, I haven't found a girl I wanna be with yet, but I have had some positive things happen in my life. I really do believe things happen for a reason. You have to look at the good things in your life and focus on that 100%. Try to not dwell on the bullshit. I know that might be hard (fuck that, I know it is), but force yourself. Really force yourself. You might be surprised at what happens.
 
I noticed a strange thing.
Everytime I broke up with a girl or a girl with me.
The other chick (mostly for one night) was around the corner.

I always took the change but not the last time. I felt like I am over that shit after a 3year relationship breakup. Now I am single for 4 years now and I hate myself for not banging that girl 4 years ago. Maybe I would be in a relationship right now :P

But the good news is. That 3 year relationship was one of my lifes biggest mistakes.
After she broke up with me. I concentrated on my life-goals.

So:
-I am studying media-technics
-I player over 100 shows with my old band (badge of apathy RIP)
-Have recording sessions every month and finance all my GAS with it.
-Had the best time of my life with my real friends
-Had some awsome holidays with my friends
-got to meet the craziest girls in my life.

Only downside is:
-I sometimes miss the relationship stuff very hard.
Yeah and after 4 years I realy wanna settle down and get a good girl and dont worry about that shit anymore.

The problem I have right now.
The girls I realy like, and of who I think they could be the one, are only good friends and I dont see anyway to change that but only with challenging the friendship.
The other girls that want me, arent girls I would spent the rest of my life with.

And I sweared to myselve no more relationship only for the fucking .....


Yeah that stuff is tuff.
Go watch high fidelity

And IMO that girl would be a waste of your life so be happy that it didnt work out.
I dont know her or anything, but I believe this is what life wants to tell us in this situation.
 
AHChris said:
She was just here to pick up some stuff of hers... AWKWARD. And I´m down again.
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Aaargh that sucks, know this feeling.

What killed me the most, after we ended the 3 years relationship (without hate and injured pride)...10 days after she had a new boyfriend and is acting like a porn queen (!) We were engaged and I really loved her! Not only that I were very sad because of the division...she also destroyed my self esteem and I fell into a deep depression. Hardest time in my life!
 
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