I´m single...

Aaargh that sucks, know this feeling.

What killed me the most, after we ended the 3 years relationship (without hate and injured pride)...10 days after she had a new boyfriend and is acting like a porn queen (!) We were engaged and I really loved her! Not only that I were very sad because of the division...she also destroyed my self esteem and I fell into a deep depression. Hardest time in my life!

I´m really sorry for what happened to you... Sounds like a nightmare.

We ended it without hard feelings too. But she´s not the type for that porn queen stuff ;) I don´t think I´ll see her very often. I don´t get out much, because I have loads of stuff to do.
 
I´m really sorry for what happened to you... Sounds like a nightmare.

We ended it without hard feelings too. But she´s not the type for that porn queen stuff ;) I don´t think I´ll see her very often. I don´t get out much, because I have loads of stuff to do.


Haha yeah it was ;) Hopefully it comes to an end soon. Lost the passion for fucking everything, even making music. That sucks!

It´s good you have loads of stuff to do. Ablenkung ist alles!!
 
What killed me the most, after we ended the 3 years relationship (without hate and injured pride)...10 days after she had a new boyfriend and is acting like a porn queen (!) We were engaged and I really loved her! Not only that I were very sad because of the division...she also destroyed my self esteem and I fell into a deep depression. Hardest time in my life!

happened to a friend of mine too some time ago when his GF broke up with him.
Strange to see some girls turning into porn queens after such short time :guh:
 
happened to a friend of mine too some time ago when his GF broke up with him.
Strange to see some girls turning into porn queens after such short time :guh:

Dunno...maybe it´s her way to deal with it. And I´m sure, it´s a certain kind of vengeance. I completely ignored here after I found my personal ending of the relationship. I´m sure she don´t wanted to be kind of "victim" or something. I guess, that´s the reason she acted that extremely. Maybe it´s all facebook propaganda shit, who knows ;)
 
+1 to gabriel!

But what I really really hate is when a girl cries when she break up a relationship.
I mean come on, if a decision is made stand behind it and don't act like that.

You see the girl you love crying and of course you wanna comfort her in the first moment, but then you realise that she brakes up a relationsship and you go wut?!
wtf
 
I'm new here so you guys don't know me yet, but I feel your pain man.

Shit sucks. But try to remember how much worse some people have it.
Small consolation I know, but anything to help get through it.

Good luck.
 
Year 6-7 here; Damn the time flies. When I was working I did quite a bit of FOH mixing and touring, I noticed that most girls hate that they can't see me most of the year because my job keeps me on the road, so I just stopped looking. Maybe I should date someone who is also constantly away from home so that we could see eachother on like twice a year.

Yeah, that's one thing that's always been on my mind, having a job that requires a lot of traveling, being away from home.
Would suck to get a girl and the relationship having to be strained because you aren't there.
I'm kinda an introvert, so I like doing a fair bit of stuff on my own, but at the same time being able to see your girl whenever would be a comforting experience. Can't really imagine what it would be like spending months away from a girlfriend/wife.

I've joined the single club from a nearly 3 year relationship as of today. Blah. This sucks.

Aww that blows man :(
Hopefully you'll find someone cool in the new year
 
my gf just dumped me 2 days ago after 3 years.. we're even living together, so i need to get out of here asap because everything is so fucked up right now, i'm kinda speechless and very sad.. :ill: i hate 2011 already :cry:
 
My GF of about four years dumbed me a few weeks ago too. wtf is this, it's like those dead birds :lol:

I feel okay about though. Even though it's really weird, and pretty sad it still feels refreshing. Like a chance to try something new.


Although, give me about two months I'll be neck deep in Jack Daniels with a gun to my head :lol: