- Feb 22, 2007
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Is it possible for a person to purposely commit a selfless act where in which there is absolutely 0 gain for themselves?
Not trying to say humanity is evil or something, just that people elevate so called giving and selfless people when they're not truly selfless. Everything you purposely do is for a reason, and we only do it for reasons that benefit us.
Keep in mind possible reasons for doing things can include.
-It makes you feel like a better person.
-It makes you feel morally superior to others.
-You would feel guilty if you didn't do something.
Every time you help someone even if you gain nothing in the material world you always feel some kind of sense of accomplishment, or at least think you will even if you end up regretting it later. Even if you die from said selfless act, I would bet that either, you hold on to some belief of a better life in the afterworld, you don't view death negatively, or you would hate your life after if you didn't do it.
I'm sure someone will be able to come up with something, but my point is that truly selfless acts are rarely if never seen. And when you act "selflessly" by giving someone something you're being a presumptuous asshole by assuming they're materialistic and selfish. Sometimes (often in relationships) the selfless thing can actually be hurtful if you give them a lot of things and they are unable to give as much back they may feel like shit because of it, while you feel better about yourself.
Think about how people feel not how society tells you everyone should feel.
Not trying to say humanity is evil or something, just that people elevate so called giving and selfless people when they're not truly selfless. Everything you purposely do is for a reason, and we only do it for reasons that benefit us.
Keep in mind possible reasons for doing things can include.
-It makes you feel like a better person.
-It makes you feel morally superior to others.
-You would feel guilty if you didn't do something.
Every time you help someone even if you gain nothing in the material world you always feel some kind of sense of accomplishment, or at least think you will even if you end up regretting it later. Even if you die from said selfless act, I would bet that either, you hold on to some belief of a better life in the afterworld, you don't view death negatively, or you would hate your life after if you didn't do it.
I'm sure someone will be able to come up with something, but my point is that truly selfless acts are rarely if never seen. And when you act "selflessly" by giving someone something you're being a presumptuous asshole by assuming they're materialistic and selfish. Sometimes (often in relationships) the selfless thing can actually be hurtful if you give them a lot of things and they are unable to give as much back they may feel like shit because of it, while you feel better about yourself.
Think about how people feel not how society tells you everyone should feel.