You know the only tubes I haven't played are Tung-Sol. I know that I like JJs miles ahead of Sovtek and Chinese tubes which when I compared made me feel queasy as to how nasty they sounded. The JJs were always more bold, solid, while being rich and much darker, taming that fizz the amp is known for. I would really need to try EH and Tung-sol in my amp and get a comparison but I haven't been in a rush because I like how my current setup tames the fizz.
As for the presence setting, even with the JJs I have my presence less than 7 and at lower volumes 0 to 7 has no sound change so more often than not I have it a 0. When at rehearsal and live I just put it on 7 because I know its more correct of a setting, but for the most part because I use non-audio ear plugs I can't hear a difference and I don't care to damage my hearing to try to listen for a difference when the post gain is around 3.5 which is where it is at during practice and live, our local venue sound guys like the amps loud. Obvious though you darken the amp when you begin to compress the the power section and saturate the transformer so it tames the high end and makes the feedback loop act differently. I can't hear subtle differences when the amp is that loud, it just sounds loud and I can hear the compression of tube sag going on.
The best test would be to record the amp at full volume to hear the differences at more realistic volumes between the tubes. My estimation is that even at equal levels of brightness when compensating the presence between JJs and say Tung-sol would be that the JJs would sound a bit more harsh just on the premise that they are darker in nature, putting more focus on what is going on in the 4KHz-6KHz area.