NAD - what you should do is dig out a single album like this and just absorb it fully. I really think you've got swamped in too many CD-Rs that end up acting as 'samplers', you know? It seems to be killing your 'spirit' somewhat (just an observation as a bystander, otherwise ignore me).
Orphaned Land (whether it be their death/doom excursion with El Norra Alila or the new epic death/prog Mabool) will take many, many listens....I only just got round to the debut album....but at the end of the day, you really have to trust your instincts I suppose. Most people who give Orphaned Land a chance end up seeing how unique they are, and it all becomes quite magical.
If you don't have time, because it is an extremely exhaustive album -- like the good ol' days when you'd sit and read along with all the words to the big epic albums -- skip to track #12, headphones on, and use that as an example of how incredible the band is. That song really clinches the deal for me.
#1 album of 2004, no brainer.