I agree with most of everyone here, moshing sucks, it is all about the music...with metal...At most of the metal shows I've been to, there's always people in the pit out to hurt one another
It's completely different from hardcore shows...I used to go to a lot of hardcore shows a few years ago and that was a completely different thing...for all these hardcore & straightedge kids, the pit was more of a dance, people were definately getting hit, and hit hard, but not hurt, and not hit with the intention of hurting...I can remember an Earth Crisis show a while back, basically the crowd formed this huge circle pit (nobody in the middle, just a big circle and people spin around the perimeter of the circle flailing arms and legs and hitting people as they go around the circle)...but it's more of a dance than anything else...
The coolest thing, by far was a show about 5 years ago, I saw Bloodlet/Hatebreed/Entombed play. While Bloodlet and HAtebreed played, all the metalheads stood around while the hardcore kids had their circle pit and did their thing, just one or two random "metalheads" even bothered to get in, and they were in there for the wrong reason, and payed for it...
But then Entombed went on, and all the hardcore kids stood around the edges of the club, and all the metalheads got up in front, no moshing or pit or anything...just a bunch of metalheads headbanging and watching entombed play...
Pretty good show by far....Don't know if anyone out there ever listened to Bloodlet, but definately check em out (the whole album Entheogen still is in my car almost daily)...They broke up a few years ago, but I've heard they just got back together, so maybe more to come...
Anyway, enough babbling for now...