Post some clips..
Definitely route all your drums separately. I use Slate, but generally go Snare/Kick/Toms/Cymbals/Room separately, then you can do whatever. If you have any compression on the entire drum bus it should only be 1 or 2dB max, but you can do more if its JUST drums (ie. only close mics, no cymbals). Also experiment with different attack/release times.. sometimes 0 attack can thicken it up, 3ms can be cool, 10ms for some quick snap, or 30ms for the whole body of the attack. Release times depend on how you like the sustain of your drum, and how fast its being played.
Finally, limiters don't help drums cut through, they do the opposite. They take the attack away from drums. They're necessary for getting your loudness, and can sometimes be useful at the start of a snare chain (before any compression), but they'll NEVER help your drums cut through. If you want to get your drums louder without sacrificing punch so much, clipping can help to some degree. But inevitably some punch will be taken away when you get it loud, no matter what you do.
But again, clips and we can provide more specific help.