Oh my God, dude. Listen to me very carefully: You want to get as far away from this as possible. I have experience in this kind of thing....it ain't pretty. But before you do it, have a nice long get it out there no stops pulled talk with her about EVERYTHING. In the end it will boil down to this: If you don't have the same agendas, and you disagree for whatever reason with it, you are totally wasting your time and are gonna put up with nights and nights more of grief dude. I know it all sounds simple........but seriously.....a lot of people don't grasp that fact. It seems like it might all be ok but deep down you know for a fact it won't, really. She's not on the same page as you, and things will NOT work if you're not on the same page, no matter how much you care or are close. If the rope is going <------> this way, it's gonna snap..just a fact unfortunately. She doesn't seem to know what she wants, and she may be taking advantage of you without meaning to, yet you've probably given her more then any of these boy toy people - you don't deserve her treatment. Gotta fend for yourself eventually, get out of this before you get seriously hurt, and explain it to her so she knows......
