This is the wierdest thread.
Imagine, you spend your time writing music together with a bunch of people with similar dreams and desires and then together you decide to go on tour and play music you love to people who have bought (or downloaded) your music - and who have then paid to see you play it live in front of them. Life is hard. What????????????
Now, I'll tell you my experience. When I am in the rehearsal rooms playing and writing music, I am not all there. If I feel something special for the song that I am in the midst of then I am wishing it was being shared. When it is being played live in front of some fellow human beings (kindred spirits) then to me that it is right.
The absolute hardest part of being in a band for me is the "doing fucking nothing" bit. It is a massive sacrifice sometimes, but when you are on the road then it makes all the hardship worthwhile.
I know it seems that Dunc aint keen about touring no more, but he's done it quite a lot and he had to go on the road when the feeling was no longer right for him. In this case I understand that it is difficult.
BUT, I can remember Dunc being on tour and laughing till he cried, on so many occasions.
C'mon Dora. Are you joking?